3 Secrets of Happiness in Your Personal Life

To become a master at anything, you must first learn the basics. And not only to learn — you need to live through their frame, lean on them, then boldly push off from them and, instead of a stain of disappointment, create your own work of art out of them. This article will give you that opportunity. It summarizes the 3 pillars of a happy relationship.

Correct Pauses — the Law of Maintaining Interest in a Relationship

Trust, complete immersion in each other and unity with a partner is a cool and important thing. And without it, a relationship cannot exist. To achieve it, we adjust to each other’s outlook on life, everyday and sexual matters. It is at this moment of ideally tuned resonance that it is especially easy to lose a sense of moderation. Comfort, for instance, is transformed into convenience, and convenience continues in the quagmire, which sucks in and intoxicates. Then the acuteness of feelings decreases, and the value of the partner falls.

It is for this that a small respite is used. You should:

• go somewhere without a partner (business trip, vacation);
• sleep for some time in different rooms;
• stop hugging or kissing him/her for a while, etc.

The Meaning of What We Say or Do to a Person Is Always in Their Reaction to It

There are hundreds of ways to convey a single thought, and only a few of them will lead us to the desired result. The problem is that people themselves aren’t always aware of what results they expect in response to their words or actions. Of course, behind every action and word, there’s always some kind of positive (for ourselves) intention. But whatever we intend for ourselves, it won’t work if:

• this intention isn’t realized;
• the way of implementation is wrong.

The Roles We Play Determine Our Relationship

Role rapport and simple logic assert that we simply won’t find ourselves in a relationship with a person whose roles don’t match at all with ours. After all, everything in the world is dual: the narrator is useless without a listener, the reader makes the writer such, and the tyrant doesn’t exist without a victim. The same principle is responsible for our love relationship.