The Best Places to Ask a Girl Out

The first date should not take place in private, but also without friends and family members. Consider meeting only in relatively crowded places, don’t agree to a home visit and don’t invite a girl to your place. If a woman is persistent in inviting friends, find a reason to refuse gently or offer your option.

You should also not invite friends to the first meeting, even if the girl proposes to get four together, taking her bestie with her. In such a company, you cannot be alone and have a heart-to-heart talk. There is also a chance that a woman will like your friend more.

Cinema as a Place for a Date

Going to the cinema is not a bad idea for the first date, but also the second and all subsequent ones. There are many advantages here:

• you will be able to be close to the girl without taking the initiative;
• you don’t need to talk a lot in the cinema, which means there will be no unnecessary questions;
• a girl can put on high-heeled shoes without fear of getting tired;
• no need for a girl to worry about evening dress;
• you can avoid answering awkward questions;
• there is an opportunity to observe insensibly the reaction of a lady to life situations.

To avoid getting tired of visiting the cinema, choose neutral films. Erotica is bad for a first romantic date. It’s good if you determine before buying a ticket that both are interested in science fiction, comedy, or action movies.

Cafés and Restaurants

When choosing where to go on a date with a girl, men most often offer a café. A non-committal cup of coffee is the best start both for acquaintance and a sincere conversation. At the table, it is convenient to talk, joke and study a potential partner. But there are some nuances:

• don’t offer expensive restaurants;
• be careful with unfamiliar national cuisine to avoid being embarrassed by your ignorance of appliances and rules of the meal;
• don’t get carried away with alcohol — a glass of wine or light cocktail is enough to neutralize tension;
• don’t wait for a woman to suggest leaving, try to identify this golden moment yourself;
• stay on mid-range food: the interest in the most expensive snacks may not play in your favour, and the search for the lowest price tags will offend the woman.

If you have just met, it is better to choose a coffee shop as a place for a date. You can go to a restaurant with a girl you already know.

One Day Excursion Trip

Not a very popular, but a noteworthy option. There are small excursions without an overnight stay in every city, so it will not be hard to choose the most interesting option for two.